Up and off to the Presbytery Business Committee. There is great talk about altering the shape of presbytery -- fewer meetings, perhaps and fewer committees. Anything which enables ministers to spend longer in their parishes will have my support. Off to Arrochar for the funeral of Duncan Fisher, the last of the Fisher family to live in Ardlui and a real old character. The Church was well filled with people standing as well. I paid tribute to Duncan in the following way:
Duncan was born at Largiemore Farm, near Otterferry. He was only three years old when the family came to Ardleish and it was here that he grew up with his brother and three sisters. he was educated at Garistock at Ardlui and then at Tarbet, leaving school when he was twelve. He worked on the farm at Ardleish until the war broke out and at this time, because of war regulations which prohibited him from remaining at Ardleish, he moved across to Midross to work with Johnny Miller. At Ardleish he had worked with sheep, now he worked as a horseman on the farm which centred around growing potatoes.
It wasn't long before he met Ruby. The farmhouse at Ardleish was always rented out to visitors for the summer And Ruby's family took the rent of the farmhouse for a month. Romance blossomed and Ruby became a wartime bride as they were married in St. John's Cathedral in 1942.
Duncan moved to work at the sawmill at Jamestown and he and his new wife set up home in one of the sawmill cottages within the grounds. I gathered that Duncan enjoyed the work, although he did lose his pinkie to the sawmills' blade. It was the opportunity presented to Duncan's father to move to Stuckendroin that saw Duncan move back to Ardleish, initially as a shepherd, but then, with his father's assistance, taking it over for himself.
And this became his life. He remained as a sheep farmer at Ardleish until he reached sixty-five and retirement.
Now, of course, in this brief synopsis of Duncan's life, there is much I have passed over. The building of the family home 'Hill View' at Garistock in the mid-fifties, the arrival of his three children, Duncan, Irene and Gwen, the holidays Ruby and Duncan enjoyed, travelling to Majorca and Teneriffe, the collecting up of the family into a taxi and taking them all off to the Cowal Games where Duncan really enjoyed listening to the pipe bands.
But, my goodness, those days are almost sixty years ago for Duncan has enjoyed a long and happy retirement. There have been sadnesses for Ruby died in 1998 and when you live to such a ripe old age then you see many of your friends and family die. Ruby's ashes will be buried with Duncan today -- a reminder, as if one were needed, of how much they shared together and meant to each other.
But, I am sure that the pictures you have in your mind of Big Duncan, of Doch, are happy ones. Do you remember him cutting bracken and planting trees? Or tending his rhubarb patch and his few flowers around his house -- he was never really a gardener? Or the little job he had looking after the toilets at the station -- a job which he believed gave him the right to travel the length and breadth of the rail network without a ticket, and because everyone knew him and loved him, he got away with it. Or the once in a life-time trip to Australia, to Tasmania to visit his cousin?
Do you remember him with his dogs? I'm told it was his sister who asked him to take on his first Labrador and from that time on he was never without one.
I'm told that he would sit by the fire with his dog, at peace with the world. Sometimes he would read, often cowboy books or detective stories, sometimes the National Geographic to which he had subscribed for seventy years. He loved nature and geography and when he had a television, it was nature programmes he enjoyed. (I'm told he got rid of his television because he didn't think it was worth the licence fee -- but got a new one once he reached the age when one was given a licence for nothing.)
Your abiding memory, perhaps, will be of one who was your friend, a private person, but one who was never happier than when his home was filled with friends. You'll remember his dry sense of humour which could shut you off in a sentence and most of all you will remember one to whom you were important, whether as his son or daughter, his grandchild or great grandchild, his friend, his colleague.
This isn't a day for sadness because Duncan has lived a long, a fulfilled and a happy life. Smile as you share your memories of what he has meant to you.
I want, on behalf of the family, to thank Duncan's carers, special people everyone of you, enabling Duncan to stay in his home right up until his final, fatal stroke. It was his wish and you made it possible.
Duncan was a man loved by his family and held in very high regard by the community of which he was an important part – your presence here testifies to that.
Without a doubt we shall all miss Duncan very much – but he will not be forgotten. So today we give thanks for Duncan’s life, for his friendship, for his commitment to our community, and for all that he was to those for whom he was most special – a caring father and extremely proud grandfather and great grandfather.
Duncan's grandson, Andrew, also shared his memories of his grandfather. Back home, I got things in order for the meeting of the Heritage Group and later had a meeting with Neil about some of the things which we are planning for the Church at Arrochar. The Heritage meeting, which I led, was looking at a fifteen hundred year time-line of ministers of the Church in Luss and as we looked at the time-line I tried to help folk understand it by relating to incidents which were happening around -- both in Luss and wider in Scotland and in the development of our national church. I had enjoyed preparing for this meeting but there is a huge amount to do before we have a definitive story to share. Back home, we had some spaghetti as we resumed our watching of The West Wing before bed.
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